Parties and More Parties

Friday night we attended a Spooktacular Extravaganza at casa Morgan. Michael and I were in a predicament about what we should dress up as. After the week I had, we decided it needed to be simple, yet effective. Therefore, we decided that we would be the host of the party as they were back in the mid 90's. Here we are as the golden couple. Me as the CHS Homecoming Queen and Michael as Mr. Tech Baseball. Note the added junk in the trunk! :0


However, the junk could not compare to THIS:


We had a great time scurring around Spring Hill all dressed up for the Scavenger Hunt. We obviously attracted plenty of stares. Although my team lost...(yes, I admit defeat, but I DO NOT want to talk about it), we definitely had more fun! :)



Here is scary, crazy lady, who just showed up at the house (and who Michael felt up! AAHH!)



Yes, I left Graham, but only for a few hours. He ended up sleeping the whole time and didn't even have to take the bottle. That was great for me because I was able to nurse him when I got home instead of pumping.

Saturday morning, we woke up to Graham sounding very congested. He makes all kinds of noises anyway, but this was extra "wheezy" sounding. Lila has also had a running nose, which was one reason I was concerned about Graham. I decided to run him up to the Dr. just in case. Michael took Lila with him to her first Auction courtesy of P. Wayne. The Dr. said Graham was fine and everything sounded clear. He may just have a little cold. He did weigh in at 11 lbs 1 oz. This made mommy very happy! He has gained a pound in a week! YEAH! I have an inkling he will be able to wear that Halloween outfit I bought him.

Once I finally made it home, it was time to get ready for the UT/BAMA game. I decided I wanted to have people over since I knew I would have a reason to celebrate. ROLL TIDE! I was able to get up and get the kids dressed in their BAMA gear before daddy snuck on any orange and white! (To be honest I think that this is one season he doesn't mind so much.)




Oh, and little Miss Thang may have some competition with Brother Graham in the fight for being Mason's best friend. Mason LOVED Graham and was adamant about holding him. So cute!



We were hoping to take Graham to church for the first time today, but with all the runny noses and late nights, we didn't make it. After Lila's nap today, this is what we walked in to find. This hair...it is crazy! She is at least loving on her brother.





We took the kids out to play since it was such a nice afternoon. Michael was holding Graham and decided that he needed to go down the slide. I didn't think he was serious...but Oh, yes! Here is Graham's first slide ride!




We are looking forward to a fun filled fall week. Here is a preview of things to come: Guess HOO this little one is for Halloween?!?

Wee May

I know you are probably wondering what in the world this title is about. Well...it would be about what Big Sister has decided to call Little Brother. It is so funny how for months Lila would point to/kiss my big ole belly and say Baby Boy, and now he is Wee May. Since we never practiced an actual name for him while I was pregnant, we always just referred to him as baby brother or baby boy. Since he has been born, we ask Lila if she can say Graham. She actually spit out, "Nam" and even "Dam" a few times. We just figured that would be what she would call him until she was able to say her G's. NOPE! That only lasted for about a week. It has somehow now turned into Mee May or Wee May. (She likes to mix it up.) She usually says Baby before saying Wee May. Who knows where this came from. Could it be me adding multiple syllables with my southern accent when I say his name...Graahhaam? I don't know. But for now...he is Wee May and he sure it cute! Here are some pictures of him over the past week.





Lila does love him and is really sweet to him, but I have yet to get a good picture of them together. As much as she likes to bring him his blanket and give him his paci if he is upset, she DOES NOT like to hold him. As soon as we put him on her lap, she is pushing him away saying No! Poor little boy. I will never forget how one night she was in her room with Michael getting ready for bed while I was in the living room nursing Graham. Michael put on her pj's and he said she grabbed her blanket and paci and took off out of the room. The next thing I know she walks straight over to me, takes out her paci, kisses Graham on the forehead and says "Nigh Nigh" and then turns and walks back to her room. It was so sweet! Now when I go to get her up in the morning, she leans her head around me and says "Baby?, Mee May?" Many times we have to go in my room and find him before I even get her diaper changed. She also likes to put her finger over her mouth and say, "Shh..Baby." One night, she was dead asleep and she woke up in the middle of the night. While changing her diaper, she takes her paci out and says "Shh baby" and then puts her paci back in. She repeated this several times. Speaking of waking up in the middle of the night....my perfect night time sleeper has woken up just about every night since bringing Graham home. When I say she has woken up, I mean she sobs and cries uncontrollably for several minutes. This is not like her at all. I don't know if she is having nightmares or if she knows something is different, but it is killing me. In addition to it breaking my heart, I don't need another child to get up with in the middle of the night. Sometimes it has happened around midnight and 2 or 3, and then just other times in the middle of the night. I am not sure what to do, but I feel so bad for her.
This has been a rough week over all for us though. I will just put it this way... Tuesday, I don't think I even used the bathroom until 1:45 pm. After being up all night with Graham on Wednesday night, I called Michael about 3 pm and begged him to come home from work on Thursday. I am not sure if I made it out of my pj's or got my teeth brushed either of these days. Attractive, I know. Graham is super gassy and his fussy time is late at night and in the mornings. It never fails, but he and Lila end up getting up at the same time every morning. It doesn't matter if I have already nursed him and he should be asleep, he wakes up. Or if he is up crying, she will wake up at a time that is not her norm. It is like they have this connection and can hear each other. For example, he will be dead asleep and I go in Lila's room to get her up and changed. In the middle of me changing her diaper, I hear him crying. I have faith that we will get a routine down soon though. Things have just been crazy with my work. Once that calms down, I will actually get to be a mom! :) For now, we are just taking it one day at a time! Yes, there have been many tears shed, but even more smiles crossing my face. Each days seems to bring not only tears of frustration, but tears of joy that I am so blessed with my perfect little family!

Tonight is the Halloween Party and we have our costumes. I know you can't wait!

Play Date!

Graham had his first official playdate. I am calling it that anyway. My dear friend Kristy came to visit and brought baby Kendall to visit. I love seeing her because she is able to wear Lila's old clothes and it brings back so many memories!

The Clan has arrived!

My sister, brother in law, and 3 little ones came to meet the newest Harrell addition this weekend. I was excited for them to come as I had many outings planned for us. Yes, I was ready to be out of the house! We had a grand time. Lila loves her cousins so much! Bedtime was not so lovely for mommy and daddy as Lila screamed and cried for “Jayce, Gace, and Ehya.” She has not acted like that in so long, but it broke my heart knowing she wanted to be upstairs where they were, without her. If I thought for a minute she would lie down and go to sleep with them I would have let her, but we all know that would never happen!
The Clan arrived Friday night, so we just spent the evening visiting and loving on Baby Graham. The kiddos also think jumping off the old trunk onto the air mattress is the best thing ever!





Saturday we loaded up and headed to College Grove.
A Big Thanks goes out to Mr. Poole and Diana for hosting a great “Open Farm” where we petted miniature donkey’s(one that was only 3 days old), and roasted marshmallows.


The kids also enjoyed the face painting and donkey rides. We even had a great surprise in getting to see Lila's friend, Will. They are really checking each other out!





After driving around most of Williamson and Maury County, we made a stop at Ring Farm where went on a non-hay hayride. Yes, I said NON-HAY. There was a ride, just no hay...only benches. Here is Lila during the scary part of the ride. (Check out the mullet.)


The best part of this stop would have to be the home-made slide. It was this black bumpy tubing that looks like you would use it on a construction site. To go down it, we sat on potato sacks. So Fun! To I must say, I am one who loves roller coasters and anything thrilling, but I even let out a little scream going down! Lila had a big time. However,the highlight for her was getting to sit and play in the rocks as she watched everyone else come down. She would let out a big clap and "YEAH!!" each time someone new appeared at the bottom. Her other favorite thing was "sorting" all the pumpkins and gords. One by one she moved each of them to a different pile. What a good helper! :)







Although the trip went fast, we had a great time. I was pooped on Sunday after everyone left, but not enough to miss out on the beautiful fall weather. Michael, Lila, Graham, and I loaded up and went to Gentry's Farm. Unfortunately, we did not get to stay too long, but Lila had a blast. I actually brought my camera, but left the battery on the charger at home. Figures! I did take pictures with our video camera, but I haven't looked into how to download them yet.
Anyway, thanks for coming to visit Harrison's!



We actually don't have any company planned for this coming weekend, so it will be nice to spend it together as a family. Friday night we have a Halloween Party to attend. Yes, I will be leaving my 3 week old! AAHH! I haven't tried a bottle yet, so let's hope that works out. I still have no idea what we are planning to be, but I will be sure to post pictures. I know Michael is looking forward to just being able to relax. He was super busy last week with work and even had to spend the night away on a retreat. I was not too happy about that, as Graham has been having his fussy time after his late night feeding. That means around 11:30/midnight he is screaming and crying until 2 or so. Luckily, my mom was here from Monday until Friday. She was a huge help. I just told Michael he was not allowed to work late nights and have over night trips when our children are only 2 weeks old! I know he wishes that were not the case either. We are also gearing up for the big UT/BAMA rival game on Saturday. I am going to have to find a way to sneak the babies BAMA outfits on before big UT daddy sees. :) Stay tuned...

We passed!

By that I mean.. Graham is 2 weeks old and is back to his birth weight. So obviously, I am making and he is drinking MILK! YEAH!! . The Dr. said he looks perfect. I have been super nervous about my milk supply and about just how much he sleeps. I know, I know…I should be thankful, but really I don’t sleep as well because I am worried about him sleeping too much and then I am having to wake him to eat while doing everything imaginable to keep him awake! He is obviously getting something because he is back to his birth weight, is 22 3/4 “ long, and pees and poops quite often.

Luckily Grandmother is here with us this week. Michael is super busy at work and will actually be spending the night away from home for a work retreat. We are looking forward to the Harrison clan to come visit next. I also want to give shout out to our dear friends...the Kaufman's, who are getting married this weekend in Charleston. I wish desperately that we could be there with you! Congratulations and we can't wait to see you again!

Week 2

Well, we are in the middle of the 2nd week of Brother Graham's life. We have had lots of visitors including Mamaw and Papaw and some dear friends. Luckily, my mom is coming back to help me this week. I did pretty well by myself last week after Michael went back to work. It did take me about 10 minutes just to pack up everything I needed to go where....??? UPSTAIRS! :) Luckily, Graham is sleeping A LOT right now. I know I should not complain, but I do worry that he sleeps too much and isn't having enough wake time. I have to wake him up to eat, and do you know how hard that is in the middle of the night?! I am anxious to go back to the Dr. on Wednesday to see if he is back to his birth weight.
Lila has been a sweet heart. All I can say, is I am so thankful for the rain. It made it dark in her room in the mornings, which helped her to sleep in. This was totally a God thing, because I needed her to sleep in and nap well for me. She did just that my first few days home a lone. I know it won't last forever, but I will take whatever I can get. Today we attempted to surprise Daddy at work and take him to lunch, but instead Mommy found herself surprised by about 6 people gathered in Daddy's office for a meeting. Needless to say, we didn't get to do the lunch thing. We did hang around and show Graham off while waiting for Michael to finish his meeting. We also went by and visited the girls at LIS. Lila had a big time! She had not had a nap, so she was full of herself! She ran around like she owned the place.




Here are a few snapshots from over the weekend. Thanks Stephen and Suzanne for coming to visit.

Bath Time

is so not fun! At least not for this little one.


All Better!